Ahh engineers. They are a breed of their own. Some of the smartest
people out there, combined with a personality that can be confusing
at first, if you are a free spirit, fly by the seat of your pants type like
me.
But once you understand them, you realize there are major pluses to
having one as your partner.
1. They are extremely organized
It’s no secret that engineers tend to be somewhat particular about
where their things go. They like to have easy access, up-to-date
technology, working solutions, and organization in their world.
Perhaps their idea of organization is not the same as yours, but being
with an engineer means respecting their ways, as intruding in their
system can be disruptive to their balance and ability to be productive.
And you will enjoy leading an organized life with your loved one.
2. They know how to handle high-pressure and stressful situations
well
Engineers encounter a lot of high stress situations at work, and they
know they can’t lose their minds. This is actually a great thing for you
if you are the partner of this logical type, because that means he or
she won’t join you on the emotional rollercoaster, and instead be a
calming force in the relationship.
3. They absorb information quickly
Men and women in the engineering profession acquire acute attention
to detail.
Not only does this mean they will want that specific type of cheese
and will go to the store late at night just to get it, it also means they
will remember special dates, things you said, small details, and be
extremely thoughtful when in a relationship.
They won’t necessarily show it in the lovey-dovey way – but they will
remember to get you that one thing for your birthday you mentioned
briefly months ago, and not even make a big fuss about it.
4. They make amazing teachers
Engineers have the ability to take a lot of information, and condense it
into a few words. Working with a lot of data everyday, they have to
categorize what’s important and what’s not, since prioritizing their
efforts and energy is of the utmost importance when focusing on a
project.
This translates into their relationships as well. If you are lucky to be
dating an engineer, or married to one like me, your household will not
be one of many words, but the words will be very meaningful.
5. They have no problem committing to someone, or to something
Engineers are some of the most dedicated people, and they will work
on one thing until it’s perfect. Committing to such a demanding career
shows that they are not short-sighted, and this can translate to how
they view their personal relationships as well.
They don’t like to waste time with too many relationships, and would
rather have more serious, quality partnerships. Quality over quantity
can ring very true with this group.
6. They are actually very creative
The myth that engineers are math nerds could not be further from the
truth.
Engineers actually have to be very creative to come up with solutions
for impossible problems on a daily basis. This sort of creativity
requires a lot of brain power however, so many engineers blow off
steam by doing something else creative, like playing an instrument,
painting, or working on a “fun” project that tunes their ever-thinking
brain out. Your home will never be a boring place.
7. They have the ability to think logically, think ahead, and make a
plan
Being with an engineer means you always have a plan. Whether it’s
for the weekend, your next trip, your meals, your future, or your
finances. Sometimes it can be difficult to keep up with their level of
brain organization, but you can rest a$$ured that you are ultimately
safe, and do not have to worry about a thing.
8. They are not lazy
Engineers never really rest. Even on their days “off”, they continue to
engineer away in their mind. They may put off a project for a while to
let the solution come to them, but they don’t give up and rarely get
discouraged.
They know there will be a solution – they just have to find it. This
makes them incredible partners because they are willing to put work
into solving your relationship problems until there is resolution.
9. They have a lot of initiative, and re-engineer everyday problems to
find better, more functional solutions
This does mean that you will find their “solutions” around the house.
Solutions for leaky pipes, or solutions for the neighbor’s cat who
keeps leaving presents in your lawn. Nevertheless, they solve
everyday problems themselves, without having to call a professional.
You can trust that if your house is flooding and the roof is on fire,
they will figure something out.
10. They have an impressive ability to admit mistakes and re-work
their approach
Because their work can require a lot of trial and error, engineers learn
to rethink their strategies constantly. This translates nicely into
relationships, as it makes them more likely to examine a behavior that
may not be producing very good results (and making you mad), and
look for ways to change it to achieve better results.
If you are lucky to have found yourself one of these gems, celebrate
their qualities, appreciate their talents, show that you see how hard
they work, and most of all, enjoy the perks of having such a thoughtful
partner!
